I was the quintessential shy individual growing up, always lurking in the background, terrified of attention. But life had different plans. From working in, growing and then owning my own business, writing my first book “A Leap Year of Firsts” to enrolling in a Speaker’s Academy – I’ve changed. I now refer to myself and a “recovering shy person.” I’ve been on a remarkable journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Writing was my first step towards self-expression. It gave me a sense of courage I never knew I had. But after publishing my book, I realized that words on a page weren’t enough. I needed to give them a voice. The decision to join a Speaker’s Academy is daunting. Learning the nuances of public speaking, from body language to storytelling, I began transforming my fears into strengths. The idea of standing in front of an audience, sharing my story, my insights, and my vulnerabilities was more terrifying than any chapter I’d written. Yet, something within urged me on — a desire not just to share my story but to connect and inspire through it.
The academy isn’t just about speaking confidently; it’s about connecting and impacting lives. At the academy, I’ve been attempting to mold my life experiences into a powerful narrative, aimed at inspiring and helping others. Learning to use my former shyness as an empathetic tool has been pivotal.
If you find yourself resonating with my shy, former self, know that your voice is valuable and needed. The journey from silence to expression is challenging but deeply fulfilling. As I continue with the academy, I’m growing closer to becoming the speaker I aspire to be, proving that even the quietest voices can make a profound impact. Here’s to moving from the shadows to the stage, one word at a time, as I try to obtain another first – a Tedx Talk. Wish me luck!
Is there something in your life that terrifies you, like standing on a stage in front of people sharing your experiences? Is there something that you feel compelled to do, but are frightened to take that first step to pursue it? Will you take that first step to do a first? No regrets please… take that step and may your dreams be bigger than your fears!